Get a ?Hobby? and Talk About it
Everyone needs something that they can do on the side alone. Your thing just happens to be other women. Since you can’t tell your wife THAT little tidbit the next best thing is to slowly gain a ?interest? in something you know your wife won’t care about. Then you can begin to look for clubs or places to go enjoy your new ?hobby? on a regular basis. Once you get her used to the fact that you’re going to be gone one or two nights a week, you will have no issues sliding a date into those nights. Remember, though, you have to be slow when you do this. If you’re doing anything that is unlike your usual right away, the wife is going to get confused and she is going to wonder where you are going.
Don’t Over Do it On the DatesIf, for example, you spend Tuesday afternoon with your new girl, that night had better not be your usual date night with your wife. Unless of course, you’re that sort of man who likes to perform two or three times in a day. You also need to be careful to shower between seeing your wife and the girlfriend. Women have very sensitive noses and they’ll figure it out if you smell like a different woman’s perfume. If you join a gym, a good idea is to swing there between your trysts and hit up those showers. She’ll never even think about smelling your gym bag for women’s perfume.
Don’t Sneak Out
If you’re home for the evening, then be home for the evening. Sneaking out is something that everyone used to do when they were TEENAGERS hiding stuff from their parents. No one just goes out for a drive for no reason. The important thing to remember is that you’re a man. You’re THE man of the house. You shouldn’t be sneaking anywhere. Also, even if your wife is the deepest of all sleepers, you can never be certain that she won’t suddenly wake up and realize that you’re out with the mistress. Remember to plan ahead for all of your dates and have an airtight alibi.