This is the part of the template that changes every time. When you’re trying to net a babe you want to first find one thing that is NOT her picture that you want to mention. For example, if she says she’s from the south, mention that it reminded you of southern accents and you wondered if she had one. You want to act like what intrigued you was not her hot selfies but some detail in her profile. Doesn’t matter what detail; just try to keep it not too personal and flirty. The less pressure the better in your opener. You want to keep this short, three to five sentences as the MOST. This is because when she’s reading it she’s really just going to be glancing. She’s checking to make sure you’re not a creeper. That’s what this is al about.
About YouThe easy part! We never change this in our emails. Ever, unless of course we get a promotion or change jobs or any other major life change. Aside from that, however, this remains the same. We’re a busy guy who is just looking for casual, no holds barred friends with benefits. We talk about how much we love to lavish women with attention, but we just don’t have time to always do it. That means that when we do go out on dates we want to go all out and show her a good time. The trick is to show a babe that you’re a man who has his shit together and that you have the means to knock her socks off. That’s what she wants and what she’s looking for. Again, keep this short, under 200 words.
This is where you prove you looked through her profile. You want to look at things that she says she is interested in then head over to your local community calendar or Google. Search for functions that she would be interested in. This shouldn’t take you more than a minute or two at most. Once you find something, say something like “I was thinking about trying this event out. If you’d like to meet up with me there, shoot me an email back”. This takes the pressure off of her and will make her feel more at ease about contacting you. Once you’re at the event you can get a feel for what she’s like and if you want to seal the deal or not.