When you’re in the wide world of Internet dating, you are not alone. There’s a ton of competition on most online dating sites and it can seem pretty vicious out there. When you’re trying to get a woman’s attention you can be 100% certain that you’re not alone. Not only that, but you have no real way of knowing what you’re up against unless you spend time looking at other dudes profiles (and no one wants to do that). The thing that you need to put you above other men who are emailing babes is a good first email. Your first email needs to be simple, short, and direct without being pushy or demanding.
Short Emails are Best

“Write a short email and score”
One Email, Not Fifteen

“Don’t overdo it”
Relaxed Tone is Best
Chicks do not respond well to pressure. This is getting truer every day. When you tell a woman that she is going to contact you and you WILL go out, what usually happens is she WILL delete your email, she WILL mock you to her friends and she WILL THEN block you. That’s not what you want and it won’t get you anywhere. So what you do instead is keep the offer to hang out at the end of the email casual. Make it sound like you were planning to do what you wanted to do with her alone anyway. If she doesn’t feel pressured, she’ll be more likely to want to hang out. A woman that’s comfortable enough to hang out is going to be comfortable enough to possibly go on a date.