Pick a Good Venue
When you go out, it’s important that you head to a place where you’re going to have babes there that are receptive to your particular needs. This means that you’re going to have to find a good swinger’s venue, or a hook up bar. Use the Internet to locate the best places. This means that you are going to try to avoid “dating” or “true love” sites. You don’t have time for that if you want laid TONIGHT. When you’re looking for meet ups try sites that advertise how many people they are hooking up right now. You also could check out swingers adds on places like Craigslist.
Pro-tip, though: If you’re looking to join the swingers scene you’re going to need to be more open than most dudes are comfortable with. The only problem with them is that you’re going to run into more than just babes or just one on one who are interested in you. Most swingers groups are choked with dudes and not enough single ladies. It’s a good idea, though, to try to make friends with swingers if you can. Then you’re going to have the keys to the golden kingdom of down babes.
Give it Some Time
Don’t go right in asking a chick for sex. When you do that she’s going to either think you’re joking or be a bit offended. It’s just rude to go up to someone who you just met and ask for a favor. And trust us, as far as she’s concerned, you’re asking for a favor. Instead, try talking to a babe for a while. You don’t want to waste your time or hers, so try to ease into the topic of a one night stand. The easiest way to gauge if a chick is interested is to open flirting up slowly. Focus on your experiences and yourself, not her experiences.
Once you’re in a zone, the easiest way you can tell if you are barking up the wrong tree is to ask. Talk about how you’re not into dating, casual sex is better. See how she reacts. If she keeps being flirty, then you can move on with “how do you feel about friends with benefits?” Remember if she says no, then that’s the end of it and move on. You’re not here to argue with a chick about why you’re the best dude for her to take home. It’s her loss in the end.