No Strings Attached: How to Approach an Affair

"Keep things simple - No strings attached"

“Keep things simple – No strings attached”

A lot of guys are jealous of The Guy in their group. You know who we are talking about, That Guy, the one who always has a hot babe on deck waiting for him. Sure, he’s been married for five years and has two kids, but that hasn’t put his player’s light out at all. You may call him a dog when all of you are hanging out, but secretly, deep down, you’re jealous and he knows it. So how do you become That Guy? First you need to find a chick who is down for an affair. You need to go into the hunt for a babe with certain understandings and expectations. Having a firm idea of what you’re going after is going to go a long way in netting you the perfect affair.

Don’t Get Attached.

"Don't bring her flowers - you are getting too close!"

“Don’t bring her flowers – you are getting too close!”

You’re already married. You’re not looking for another partner or another girlfriend. And if you are, then you really need to be careful. Ending up attached to multiple women is the recipe for disaster. When you let emotions and expectations get in the way of a good sexual encounter a lot of bad things can happen. This is especially true when you’re dealing with having an affair. If you get too involved with a chick, she’s likely to fall in love with you and even if she understands at first, the tables can turn in a heartbeat and she may end up trying to call your wife. This can end your marriage if you’re not careful. That means that at the end of the day, the most important part of an affair is to not get emotionally attached to the chicks you’re doing on the side.

Mastering What to Say

Some dudes approach an affair openly. There are tons of websites out there that will help you find a chick who knows that she’s seeing a married man. This is the option that we always go for, honestly. We’re already lying to the wife about what we’re doing. When you add an affair or two into the mix then suddenly there are a whole lot of different stories that you need to figure out how to keep straight. This can end up painting anyone in a corner and you don’t want to end up confused as to what you’re doing or saying. Telling a chick up front that she’s the woman on the side is going to hopefully keep most of the mess down. However, that’s not to say that she won’t end up attached.

The other side of the coin is the dude who tells no truth. Keeping this all straight can be difficult and really does minimize both the number of times you can see a chick and the number of chicks you can see at once. Sure, the traveling businessman story is a good one, and one that gets used the most, but how long you can keep up the lie is totally up to you as an individual. Remember, if a chick catches you lying she may end up hunting down your wife.

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