For men, having an affairis not only a thrill, it’s a pleasure and a luxury – you feel like you’re in paradise, floating on a cloud and getting to have the best of both worlds. While there’s no reason to not be happy about your good fortune, it’s this kind of attitude in excess that leads to many men getting caught, found out and exposed for having affairs. The top 3 ways are things you can easily avoid, but might not think about – here’s how to stay on your toes and keep having your fun.
You should delete all text messages from your mobile
1. Some men are betrayed by their phone records. If the cell phone bill or account for your wife and girlfriend isn’t shared, or even if you do and you’re the only one that can manage it, you don’t have to worry about this as much. Since the chances of her seeing your phone records are pretty slim, you can get away with a little bit more – just make sure you delete your text messages and emails from your other woman just in case she gets a look at your phone. If you do have a shared account, remember that she has access to those phone records as well, and unfortunately even if you delete the contents of the message or the call logs, she can still see it on the bill.
“Keep your bank account separate”
2. The next most common way that men are found out is an excess of spending. Caught up in the affair, they’re reckless about their bank accounts, taking the woman they’re having an affair to expensive restaurants or buying her even more expensive presents. Often, these expenditures have no reasonable explanation, and you and your wife have a shared bank account, or if your girlfriend ever takes a look at your bank statements when